Hello everyone. Today I will write about being good and confident alone. This may be similary to the post about being alone and if you haven’t read it yet, heres the link: https://wordpress.com/post/myjourneytoelegance.com/489

I have realised that for me to be good and confident in my relationship with Kim Ove I needed to be good and confident with myself. How can I expect to be happy and have a good relationship if I don’t feel good with myself? I do spend alot of time alone, especially now that Kim Ove is at work pretty much all day. If I hadn’t been so confident with myself and trusted both him and myself, then I would feel alone, sad, bored, called or text him all day. That is not what kind of girlfriend I want to be. I want to be the girlfriend who has so much to do by herself that the days go so fast that it feels like he is gone just a couple of hours instead of almost the hole day. And to both do and be that person I needed to “find” myself, get to know myself and find hobbies that I enjoy doing. Of course, if I need to have an answer on something that can’t wait until he gets home I do call or text him, but I won’t call and text all day and I won’t talk for hours either.

Somedays I do so much by myself that the time flys by and I barely have the dinner ready ’til he comes home. And for those of you who will criticize me for making him dinner, hush! I do it because I want to. I was used to from my childhood that the person who came home first made dinner ’til the other came home. So when I also starts to work (after I am done with my education) it will be the person who comes home first who will make dinner. If he is the one who comes home first, the he will make dinner ’til I come home.

I can easily say that I am confident with myself and I do feel good being alone with myself and I love doing my own thing. And when Kim Ove comes home and we do stuff together, that is also amazing and I love it.

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Love Emilie ❤